![]() ![]() ![]() As I leaned over to take a body-shot off the wife’s naked breasts, I thought to myself, “huh, I get it now.” Over the course of the next hour I conversed with a bunch of other half-naked people, made some new friends and flirted with a sexy couple. I was in the “sexy pool” enjoying my thousandth pina colada, surrounded by six new friends I’d made that week. But as my stay at Temptation neared a close, I decided to follow Norm’s lead. I’ve always been shy about showing my body in public. They will keep them safe for you while you enjoy your holiday, and, if you care to, you may retrieve them upon checkout.”īut for Norm, he prefers to leave his behind in Mexico for good. When I ask them what keeps them coming back they say, “the freedom.” īecky likens the resort to Adult Disneyland “(It’s) a whole resort full of like-minded people just there to toss their inhibitions to the wind!”Īs Norm explains, “at check-in, there is a large ‘imaginary’ box into which you can deposit your fears and inhibitions. The retired couple hails from British Columbia and have been visiting Temptation since 2010. My second day at Temptation found me at one of the resort’s several pool adjacent restaurants, shovelling obscene amounts of guacamole down my gullet while I watched the steady parade of half-naked bodies just steps away from my table.īecky is vivacious with long white-blonde hair and soft, pretty features. However, even the guests are protective over how they define the resort and their experiences there.Īs one couple I spoke to explained with a wink, “we’re not swingers, but some of the people we sleep with are.” I had even heard the S-word (“swingers”) reluctantly thrown around. ![]() I’d heard stories about Temptation – that it was a place to get a little naked (there’s a designated “sexy pool” where women can go topless if they wish) and maybe, hookup with other singles or couples. Sex is in the air – or at the very least, the fantasy that a new sexual encounter is just around the next corner (or hotel room). The language is coded, but the implication is clear. This advertisement has not loaded yet, but your article continues below. Manage Print Subscription / Tax Receipt.The term spread in late 1997 in personal ads involving husbands wanting to show off their hot wives before further taking hold online. The term first started showing up online in the mid-1990s, mostly among message boards for swingers and exhibitionists. For some, it’s mainly a foreplay exercise to talk through a hypothetical fantasy of infidelity. In some cases, there really aren’t any affairs taking place in hotwifing. It only works if both partners are mutually onboard the hotwifing arrangement often falls apart when one partner becomes uncomfortable with non-monogamy or when one partner feels pressured against their will to participate. One of the most important aspects though is that both partners are open and trusting with each other. Hotwifing isn’t exactly swinging because only one partner is having extramarital sex. In many cases, one spouse or the other even gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish. The difference between hotwifing and cheating is consent: In a hotwife arrangement, the husband is fully aware and supportive of his wife’s affairs. ![]() The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The non-monogamous arrangement is related to a cuckolding fetish, and many (but not all) husbands in such a relationship refer to themselves as cuckolds or hot-wifers. ![]()
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